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<rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" version="2.0"><channel><atom:link rel="hub" href="http://tumblr.superfeedr.com/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom"/><description>One of the most tragic things I know about human nature is that all of us tend to put off living. We are all dreaming of some magical rose garden over the horizon-instead of enjoying the roses blooming outside our windows today - Dale Carnegie.</description><title>Welcome to reality; visit again soon.</title><generator>Tumblr (3.0; @goldillocks)</generator><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/</link><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/44e7b921eabdaf09788183f995c299ea/tumblr_mg5rmgbCPc1qz4d4bo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51169767956</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51169767956</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 16:30:23 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>jebiwonkenobi:

When I was little I thought being an adult meant not having a bed time but I’ve come...</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://jebiwonkenobi.tumblr.com/post/50327294010/when-i-was-little-i-thought-being-an-adult-meant"&gt;jebiwonkenobi&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;When I was little I thought being an adult meant not having a bed time but I’ve come to realize that it just means being in charge of my own bed time and it turns out that I am not equipped to handle that responsibility.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136869300</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136869300</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:22:37 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/d65cc04c80c1a9ac15fad1439ee5b6a2/tumblr_mgbok5sNCM1qhmhdfo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136835861</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136835861</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:21:28 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Holding on to things only breaks your heart."</title><description>“Holding on to things only breaks your heart.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Mitch Albom (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://onlinecounsellingcollege.tumblr.com/"&gt;onlinecounsellingcollege&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136793215</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136793215</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:19:53 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"We are sun and moon, dear friend; we are sea and land. It is not our purpose to become each other;..."</title><description>“We are sun and moon, dear friend; we are sea and land. It is not our purpose to become each other; it is to recognize each other, to learn to see the other and honor him for what he is: each the other’s opposite and complement.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Hermann Hesse (via &lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://likeafieldmouse.com/"&gt;likeafieldmouse&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136791371</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136791371</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:19:49 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/bfcbe3a316c88faa53921eb946f43667/tumblr_mibeb353r31qhmhdfo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136760899</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51136760899</guid><pubDate>Thu, 23 May 2013 04:18:40 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for - and to do it so unconsciously."</title><description>“What a terrible thing it is to wound someone you really care for - and to do it so unconsciously.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Haruki Murakami&lt;span&gt; &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span&gt;(Norwegian Wood)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51091628511</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51091628511</guid><pubDate>Wed, 22 May 2013 16:30:11 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/tumblr_me4py0Ae9I1qzvuwxo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51011575365</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/51011575365</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 16:30:42 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/0bd1279740c8191042303a5636ef3727/tumblr_mlu26tAUqt1r5v0bho1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50981467489</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50981467489</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 06:41:14 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>spiritualinspiration:

Do not gloat over me, my enemy! Though I...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/e0bba8561c3e485a1a15292f712ed475/tumblr_mjpvt9FXyc1rbw7vzo1_r1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://spiritualinspiration.tumblr.com/post/48105093882/do-not-gloat-over-me-my-enemy-though-i-have" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;spiritualinspiration&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Do not gloat over me, my enemy! Though I have fallen, I will rise…&lt;br/&gt;
Micah 7:8, NIV.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Anytime you set out to do something great in life, there will be critics. If you’re going to be a great businessperson, coach, student, leader or employee, there will be opposition. The more success you have, the more opportunities there will be for distractions. The higher you go, the more haters will come out. When you start stretching to a new level and pursuing what God has placed in your heart, the jealous people, the critical people, and the small-minded people come out of the woodwork and start making negative comments, but you don’t have to let that distract you.&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If you are under pressure today, if the critical voices are coming against you, know that it’s because you are making a difference. Don’t let them throw you off course. Instead, dig your heels in, set your face like a flint, and say, “I will not get distracted. I will not get drawn into battles that don’t matter. It doesn’t matter what others think; it matters what God thinks!”&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;Today, look beyond the critics. Stand strong in adversity. Press forward to what lies ahead and win the prize of life that He has prepared for you!&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Prayer for Today:&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;Father, today I choose to let go of the negative voices, offenses and hurts from critical voices. I choose to focus on You and the good plan You have for me. Give me Your peace and joy as I move forward in the victory You have prepared for me in Jesus’ name! Amen.&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50981461928</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50981461928</guid><pubDate>Tue, 21 May 2013 06:41:03 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one’s taking."</title><description>“Depression is when you have lots of love, but no one’s taking.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Doug Coupland  (via &lt;a href="http://thenocturnals.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;thenocturnals&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50930254421</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50930254421</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 16:30:12 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>spiritualinspiration:

“Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians...</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/584336c5fdbee687ba5b512e7fb9d936/tumblr_mn2cc61IvI1rzadffo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://spiritualinspiration.tumblr.com/post/50900035617/pray-without-ceasing-1-thessalonians-5-17" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;spiritualinspiration&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;blockquote&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;i&gt;“Pray without ceasing.” (1 Thessalonians 5:17)&lt;/i&gt;&lt;/p&gt;

&lt;p&gt;If there is a common thread that should run through the life of a Christian each day, it’s prayer. Now, that doesn’t mean you refuse to speak to anyone else or that you drive down the road with your eyes closed. But it does mean being ever ready and willing to go before God. Nothing is too small or too big for God to care about. He created you, so why wouldn’t He care about you? You should bathe your life in prayer. Pray for wisdom, peace, and patience. Pray for your marriage, your job, and your children. Pray for other people and circumstances, even when the situation may seem hopeless. Give every person and everything in your life to God in prayer — and they will be in the best of hands!&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50900143762</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50900143762</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 07:15:25 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>My dog is dying *sobs*</title><description>&lt;p&gt;My dog is dying *sobs*&lt;/p&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50900135669</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50900135669</guid><pubDate>Mon, 20 May 2013 07:15:11 -0400</pubDate><category>death is everywhere</category><category>my dog is a geriatric</category></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/96a1b7edcfc2e9029c9b4f94b7950c57/tumblr_mep6hkvV3d1qder5oo1_500.png"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50847866803</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50847866803</guid><pubDate>Sun, 19 May 2013 16:30:30 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>"If I respect myself and believe in what I’m doing, no one can touch me."</title><description>“If I respect myself and believe in what I’m doing, no one can touch me.”&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt; - &lt;em&gt;Fiona Apple (via &lt;a href="http://whimsicalele.tumblr.com/" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;whimsicalele&lt;/a&gt;)&lt;/em&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50754642139</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50754642139</guid><pubDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 16:30:22 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/3e91841c649c3ccb9c09e71abf217bc2/tumblr_mg8c6dME731qh37kqo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50672809332</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50672809332</guid><pubDate>Fri, 17 May 2013 16:30:26 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Understanding depression in a friend or family member</title><description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://neurolove.me/post/40234681118/understanding-depression-in-a-friend-or-family-member" class="tumblr_blog"&gt;psych-facts&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;

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&lt;p&gt;&lt;a class="tumblr_blog" href="http://onlinecounsellingcollege.tumblr.com/post/30122377200/understanding-depression-in-a-friend-or-family-member" target="_blank"&gt;onlinecounsellingcollege&lt;/a&gt;:&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;·&lt;span&gt;         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Depression is a serious condition. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Don’t underestimate the seriousness of depression. Depression drains a person’s energy, optimism, and motivation. Your depressed loved one can’t just “snap out of it” by sheer force of will.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;·&lt;span&gt;         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;The symptoms of depression aren’t personal. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Depression makes it difficult for a person to connect on a deep emotional level with anyone, even the people he or she loves most. In addition, depressed people often say hurtful things and lash out in anger. Remember that this is the depression talking, not your loved one, so try not to take it personally.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;·&lt;span&gt;         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;Hiding the problem won’t make it go away&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Don’t be an enabler. It doesn’t help anyone involved if you are making excuses, covering up the problem, or lying for a friend or family member who is depressed. In fact, this may keep the depressed person from seeking treatment.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast"&gt;&lt;span&gt;&lt;span&gt;·&lt;span&gt;         &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;You can’t “fix” someone else’s depression&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;span&gt;. Don’t try to rescue your loved one from depression. It’s not up to you to fix the problem, nor can you. You’re not to blame for your loved one’s depression or responsible for his or her happiness (or lack thereof). Ultimately, recovery is in the hands of the depressed person.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href="http://neurolove.me/post/40234681118/understanding-depression-in-a-friend-or-family-member"&gt;Read More&lt;/a&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;/blockquote&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50597631373</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50597631373</guid><pubDate>Thu, 16 May 2013 16:30:54 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/dce5682973450390f1ea42fa69ecb0bd/tumblr_mg40v0CLrB1qz4d4bo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50517165000</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50517165000</guid><pubDate>Wed, 15 May 2013 16:30:29 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://24.media.tumblr.com/d1698f1e11fcd2fec84fef090cbe6dfe/tumblr_mm6g90CkUy1rsam5qo1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50474015232</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50474015232</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 23:51:07 -0400</pubDate></item><item><title>Photo</title><description>&lt;img src="http://25.media.tumblr.com/656cf906a27d43d72057fa5e3b6a6605/tumblr_mh3sc8GoZW1rusee6o1_500.jpg"/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;&lt;br/&gt;</description><link>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50474006463</link><guid>http://goldillocks.tumblr.com/post/50474006463</guid><pubDate>Tue, 14 May 2013 23:50:59 -0400</pubDate></item></channel></rss>
